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Anger Management!

Quoting SRK from TOI -
"No, I don’t get angry. That’s one aspect of my life that I have really worked on. It doesn’t matter whether you get angry, people will do what they have to do. I don’t even get angry at home. My children think I never get angry. They ask me, ‘papa, do you ever get angry like mamma?’ They don’t realise yet that I do get angry, but that I’ve stopped expressing it."

I myself have realised similar facts over the past 2 years and am myself working on my Anger Expression (rather non-expression). I guess I have mellowed down a lot over the past 2 years; of course its only onlookers who have the right to comment, never the actor himself! (Pun intended!)

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  1. baba... there is huge difference between anger supression and anger mgmt, which includes expression of anger at the right time at the right place...

    i know i hv been into anger suppression for long... but that's making me more angry as the time passes by...

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  2. I completely agree ... Anger suppression is neither good for health (physical as well as mental) nor does any good. The anger (suppressed) simply keeps piling inside ....

    Best to channelise your anger into a milder and better ... even constructive ... form of expression ...

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